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Who takes care of the mother?
The world is talking about postpartum right now. Postpartum depression. Postpartum psychosis. Maternal mental health. Words that, for many mothers, aren’t new at all. They are just finally being said loudly enough for everyone else to hear them. As conversations surrounding the Lindsey Clancy case have once again brought postpartum mental health into the national spotlight, I have found myself thinking about something I have wondered for years: Who is taking care of the mothe
dvogel512
Aug 286 min read


Your Motherhood belongs to you
Motherhood My hand is pressed eagerly against my stomach. There it is. The littlest thump. The thought of you being here soon begins to settle in. The excitement that usually greets me in this moment is nowhere to be found. Instead, there is an endless line of emotions waiting to take over. This begins to feel familiar, like I have been in this very position before, holding the door open to what I thought was "normal" or simply the natural flow of things. It's as if my mind,
dvogel512
Jul 229 min read


The Kids Are Not Okay: A Conversation We Need To Have.
She walked with her head down and a single flower in her hand. She started off slowly but picked up pace the closer she got to him. The church was completely silent as if disbelief itself had taken over the hundreds of people intently watching. It still didn’t feel real. This couldn’t be real. He was too young to die. These kids are too young to lose their friend. But it was real, and it hit me the moment I watched my 16-year-old daughter place a flower on top of her friend l
dvogel512
May 87 min read


The Quiet work of Winter
This season can feel heavy. As if, the icy terrain is there to haunt us. It blankets our land with a distinct unwelcomed greeting. The cold finds its’ way to our bones and forces a stillness to preserve every ounce of warmth we have left. The sun takes its’ leave hours before the day is meant to end. It feels like a betrayal in some sense. As if, the winter had its’ way and won. The chill settles in for the night pushing us into our fictional warmth we crafted to survive. The
dvogel512
Jan 255 min read


Even in Darkness
The night has fallen. Light knows no name here, except for the littlest beings shining through gloom, lighting the way. Some call them...
dvogel512
Sep 28, 20255 min read


Write your own story
The world feels too heavy. It has felt like this for a while, but now, now it feels like we are carrying the weight of EVERYONE. If...
dvogel512
Sep 15, 20256 min read


For the Love of GOD, Can we change the conversation.
The sky is blue, they say. Is it really though? It is generally a shade of blue, even purple, or pink, or even at times a mixture. There...
dvogel512
Sep 10, 20257 min read


Our own little world
It is early. The sunlight finds every little crack in the shades to beam through. The exhaustion hits you. Another day of being...
dvogel512
Sep 5, 20257 min read


If you stay; a letter to moms who feel like they can’t keep going.
The most beautiful sunset I have ever seen, “ A true Purpoise moment” yes that’s spelled right lol I see a lot of TikTok’s that say, “I...
dvogel512
Aug 26, 20255 min read


When all you feel you can do is cry; Bake a pie.
Well, it’s been a minute. Things have been ROUGH. I won’t lie. I’ve been struggling, as a woman, as a mom, as a friend, and simply as a...
dvogel512
Aug 18, 20254 min read


The Daily Mental Health Check-in: Why it’s a great tool.
When it comes to mental health, it is an everyday affair. It is the relationship you have with yourself in a sense. That relationship...
dvogel512
Jun 6, 20253 min read


My mental health journey
As Mental Health awareness month comes to a close, I thought I would share a little bit about my mental health journey, and why it has...
dvogel512
Jun 1, 202511 min read


Generational Curses
This is a little deep, but I hope it brings you peace. Being a mom is the best job in the world. So much so, that I don’t view it as a...
dvogel512
Feb 3, 20256 min read


SAHM; the highs and lows and how I look at it now
Being a SAHM (stay at home mom) is such a gift, but I struggled with feeling like I wasn't contributing enough to our home. It was a...
dvogel512
Jan 23, 20255 min read


Fill your cup; babe
Welcome to awellmom, a community for moms in the thick of mothering. I created awellmom to raise awareness for moms and their mental...
dvogel512
Jan 23, 20254 min read
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